SF Reconnect “Reconnect” is a very corporate word for “hung out with my kid in the city we both live in,” but with the kitchen gone, even that took some planning. Vanya and I figured the fastest way back to normal life was somewhere with a stove that wasn’t ours. Nidhi Turns 50 Now it was Nidhi’s turn to be pampered - turning 50 apparently buys you a say in the itinerary, and she wanted a picnic in V....
I blinked, and it’s July. We spent most of the first quarter of 2026 with our kitchen torn down to the studs — which meant we enjoyed everyone else’s. Mack’s Table Mack and Vanya had us over to ring in 2026 — a proper sit-down candlelight dinner. I brought the wine, and Mack cooked us an Indian meal: kadhi, methi-aloo, and a cocktail that delighted us: it was turmeric milk. The kheer was the over-the-top closer....
If I had to sum up the last three years, it would be resilience, the unglamorous skill of continuing to show up, even when life keeps rearranging the furniture. 2023: Change (the good kind… and the other kind) 2023 brought big shifts. We moved into a new home, met new neighbors, and found our way back to friendships that make life feel full. It also delivered a stretch of uncertainty that tested us as a family....
I am thankful for the chance to contribute to BD Incada and the Pro Analytics launch. I’m grateful to have helped architect, design, drive, and deliver two BD Incada platform capabilities that will matter for BD customers for years: data visualization for analytics and identity and access management. Figure 1: Night sojourn at La Jolla shores! This was a real journey: often ambiguous, sometimes messy, and always requiring hard decisions. We began with open questions about scope and direction, navigated competing priorities, and made countless small tradeoffs that added up....
I landed in Delhi on August 25 with a round-trip ticket and a private deadline: find clarity by September 10. Back in California, Nidhi kept our life standing—quiet evenings, lonely walks, an empty side of the bed—while I learned a new routine of hospital corridors and chai breaks. My boss, Sahas, was very supportive and told me to do whatever it took to get my family in shape. Delhi welcomed me with torrential rains....
Happy 25th birthday, my love. It’s hard to put into words what it feels like to see you reach this moment — this beautiful, rich stage of life. Figure 1: Always stylish, Coit Tower, San Francisco I remember holding you in my arms, this tiny bundle of wonder, and even then, I knew there was something extraordinary about you. And now, here you are, independent, strong, thoughtful, radiant, and entirely yourself....
Every act of conscious learning requires the willingness to suffer an injury to one’s self-esteem. That is why young children, before they are aware of their own self-importance, learn so easily; and why older persons, especially if vain or important, cannot learn at all. – Utsav Mamoria As children, we learn constantly without questioning the process. Learning is simply our default state - we have no choice but to absorb new information and skills as we navigate the world....
Chants of “Happy New Year!” echo everywhere, and the TV is filled with celebratory shows. But what are we really celebrating? Is it the events of the past year or just the fact that we made it through another lap around the Sun? Honestly, I had to pause and reflect to remember what made this year special for me. The beauty of New Year’s is that it’s a globally shared moment for all of humanity....
My previous post is about finding my purpose, and I came up with a surprisingly simple and, in my opinion, profound way to find constant happiness. But what are some things I can do to achieve this purpose consistently? I am a believer in the slow, consistent, and exponential growth payoff of habits. So, what are some habits I can develop to keep true to my purpose? I ran across an amazing talk, You Are Contagious by Vanessa Van Edward, that offers tips and assistance on this very thing....
I had it all wrong. For years, I worked toward wealth and lavishness. I didn’t achieve those goals, but a little voice kept asking me, “Is this all there is to life? Make more money, spend more money? Isn’t this just an unending loop?” Growing older made things clearer. My body’s inefficiencies began to surface, and every excess was quickly punished: more alcohol led to disturbed sleep, rich food caused stomach issues, late nights brought bad mornings, and buying expensive things resulted in buyer’s remorse....