philosophy

Mindfulness is the practice of living in the present.

One of the corner stone value of my adult life, has been the old adage that “Actions speak louder than words”. The original saying is meant to convey that people’s action show their real attitudes, rather than what they say. Growing up, I was shy and introverted (I still remain that way). My childhood books (and maybe movies) led me to look up to the strong silent protagonist. I also mistook the saying to mean that I do not need to counter people’s assumptions, and that they would see and understand what I have to say by my actions....

I’ve existed on this revolving rock in space for 50 years. In this time I’ve acted like the needy child of a bird, requiring and craving constant undivided attention, care and praise. It has taken me half a century to realize that I’ve been extremely fortunate and misled at the same time. This post is a cathartic examination of people whose love I have been lucky to experience. My mom, mummy, is the unconditional forever champion of me....

A positive outlook begets success and support, and conversely a negative outlook fosters failure and bitterness. Successful people are optimistic, and bitter people remain pessimistic.