philosophy

Probability and science are against getting old. There are proven higher chances of succumbing to debilitating diseases, lower energy to work, being out of touch with newer ways of thinking and working, and hence being out of a job. There is also the traditional happy retirement lifestyle of people pottering around the house, playing bingo, and other such imagery that is sold by the media and marketers. Scenario driven people Anticipating health issues, low or no work, and other unforeseen problems, people ensure that they have saved up adequate funds, and are relatively debt free....

I have further questions than reasons given in my previous post on meditation. Questions like: Why is having a meditative state of mind better than a non-meditative one? Why does meditation or spirituality interest people my age? Information and good reasons from the book I found good arguments (that resonated well) while reading Sam Harris’s 2014 book: Waking Up: A Guide to Spirituality Without Religion. Sam is a Stanford graduate, and has a PhD in Nueroscience from UCLA....

I am blessed to work in a job whose sole purpose is solve problems. I help solve problems: with customers, to simplify their work with developers, to use technology both efficiently and effectively, and build their careers, with managers, to plan projects, set processes, coordinate resources and dependencies with product managers, to bring ideas to life I am often faced with evaluating competing solutions, and many times I have to help break a tie in two similar solutions....

Happy New Year! As I’ve grown older, I would want to imagine that I am growing wiser. However, its more the case that I have more experience of things not turning out well. I am not just talking of high stakes risk, reward scenarios, but also the mundane straightforward tasks that we all have to perform from time to time. An example from a recent experience may help clarify: a regular oil change service that I reserved time for, and on the day spent 30 minutes queuing, and finally being advised that due to the rush, the shop will only deliver back my car in the evening (spoiling my weekend plans)!...

I am in the prime of my abilities, but at the same time also becoming wary of the Ageism rampant in my chosen field of software development. Ageism refers to the stereotypes (how we think), prejudice (how we feel) and discrimination (how we act) towards others or oneself based on age. — WHO Ageism is a problem that society needs to tackle actively, as when left unchecked, it will undermine effectiveness of our work as a society....

Caveat emptor: This post is a compilation of highly abstract half thoughts… Premise Humans (we) are at the top of the food chain on planet Earth, and are fascinated with ourselves. Our capabilities are orders of magnitude superior to our nearest surviving species: apes. The secret sauce for this system seems to be (and most probably is) the organ between our ears, our brain. With the invention of internet, and maybe even before?...

How to Meditate by Pema Chodron is slightly verbose. The author reminds me of a caring grandma doling out life advice. Why meditate? First, the purpose of meditation is not to feel good and comfortable. With regular meditation all we can hope for is a slow transformation: Develop loyalty and steadfastness to yourself. When we meditate, we can have a hard time. Our minds going over a hundred miles an hour, and constantly feeling distracted....

It is surprising to learn just how much of the world’s philosophical & spiritual advances happened at roughly around the same time period of 600 BCE. Some of the greatest spiritual leaders of this time period are Buddha in India, Confucious in China, Thales, Anaximander in Greece, and Pythagoras in Italy. Deep in the pandemic (Sept 2021), I started my own spiritual journey with the reading of A guide to good life: the ancient art of stoic joy by William B Irvine....

\( Thoughtfulness = Empathy + Consideration + Kindness \) Being thoughtful takes time and deliberate work to perform consistently. Thoughtfulness typically plays a role when two people are interacting, but can sometimes apply to multiple people situations as well (for example, when trying to mediate in a conflict). Identifying thoughtful friends or colleagues is not hard, as we just need to recall discussing our problems, frustrations, desires, and hopes and with thoughtful people, as they not only listen patiently to our issues, but also provide helpful suggestions making us see and realize what we might be missing....

Despite our lives being so rich and full of color, I remember very little. Looking at old photographs enhances this feeling even more. How do we make our present more interesting and memorable? An off the cuff comment from my daughter is to have experiences that stick with us. I agree with her. I think the part of having an experience is to journal it along with pictures, so that you can come back to it later on....