I’ve existed on this revolving rock in space for 50 years. In this time I’ve acted like the needy child of a bird, requiring and craving constant undivided attention, care and praise. It has taken me half a century to realize that I’ve been extremely fortunate and misled at the same time. This post is a cathartic examination of people whose love I have been lucky to experience.
My mom, mummy, is the unconditional forever champion of me. She bolstered and cheered me throughout my life, and there is no blemish that she can see on her creation.
My dad, papa, has been critical sometimes, but always unselfishly served me through my childhood of rushed homework, exam cram sessions, transporting me to school daily for 18 years, successfully hiding any and all economic hardships, putting me beyond his own personal needs.
My paternal grandfather, बाबाजी, impressed the importance of good health, punctuality, networking, and negotiating. His life stories of focusing on a goal, and ability to struggle, survive and succeed are inspiring and motivating.
My paternal grandmother, दादी, was the epitome of social networking, and a person who never took any criticism or slight to heart. She always remained steadfast in her world view which was beautiful in its simplicity: “everything will turn out well, eventually”.
My maternal uncle, राहुल मामा, was an unconditional champion of me. His love is one of the most I miss. His patience, listening, and caring above his own problems were his endearing qualities.
My maternal grandfather, नाना, was a man of tradition, discipline and steadfastness. He had an opinionated point of view, and ensured that he was respected for it. Stylish and lavish at the same time, he spared no effort in ensuring that I remained comfortable at all times.
My maternal grandmother, नानी, is a woman with an immense amount of affection and emotion. She continues to spoil me emotionally and materially. Her life stories, किस्से, enthralled and evoked a lifetime love of travel and adventure.
My sister, रुचि, is my forever fan. She is a loving and dutiful person trying to live up to the standards of people around her.
My wife, निधी, is my rock of unconditional love, patience, and caring. Her no frills practicality and thinking of how others feel is one of the reasons that I am starting to wake up from my lifelong dream.
My daughter, वान्या, is another forever fan. She listens and follows each and every ask I demand from her.
I apologize to all of you. I have created my own bubble of humanity centered around you, and realizing slowly that I have enclosed myself in this secure and comforting cocoon.
The time is ripe for me to start thinking about leaving this nest, and return the favor to you and others in this world. I will strive to demonstrate love, kindness, compassion, empathy, and service to you and all of humanity in the next half century I may have left on this rock.